A Few Words on Finding Love:
Love can be complicated, it is something everyone, or almost everyone is looking for in some capacity. For this space in particular, we focus on an important form or love; which is Self Love. You can search for love all you want but until you find a specific level of love for self, that love that you are seeking will always escape you. Either you will resist it, scare it away, push it away by thoughts of being undeserving of it. A lack confidence, a bad body image, bad finances, a lack of self control and principles are all things that can sabotage yourself and your love life.
The best way to help you find your man is to change your vibration to morph you into the best man you can be in this moment in time. So, when that time comes for love to enter your life, the transition and acceptance of it will be smooth.
Self love is also not something that comes about from wishing love on yourself, taking bubble baths, and going to yoga retreats. Or simply talking and rambling on about ‘self love.’
The harsh truth is you have to earn self-love from yourself. You have to take care of yourself and your body as best you can. You have to have principles and discipline. You must treat others well, so when blessings come to you, you will feel good about receiving them, knowing they are well-deserved. You have to make yourself proud of your gains and accomplishments in life. You also need to hold yourself accountable for your shortcomings.
If you had a child and you loved them, you would not let them eat sweets whenever they wanted to. You would make them be in bed by bedtime. You would discipline them when they get out of line and treat others badly or endanger themselves or others with dangerous habits. This way, you set a good example for them so that they live a better life in the long term.
So, you as a grown adult who is in charge of yourself. How does this not apply to you?
As a man specifically, the highest force of self-love is self-discipline and control. Have principles. Build a better body, build a sound and structured mind, establish boundaries with yourself and others, be structured in your finances and good things will come. So, get yourself in control and grow a greater love for yourself. And then, when love comes into view, you will be ready to recognize it, actively chase it if necessary, and ultimately receive it with open arms.
The J71 project and the Jarrado identity help you to set up this system for yourself so you can complete these points on your journey.
The J-71 Project 